How emotional intelligence fetches you success?

I could easily say that I lacked what we called emotional intelligence, a few years ago. I have come a long way as I have begun to understand myself better. It is also important to realize that the emotional state and stability are as important as the day to day cognitive functions. A person’s cognitive ability is measured through the Intelligence Quotient. But is it the only way to success? No! It isn’t enough if you have a good IQ score to succeed. Emotional Quotient is a factor that complements IQ to denote a success score. EQ is as critical as IQ is to exist in this competitive world. Emotional Intelligence determines a person’s ability to network and communicate. In today’s career path, it is impossible to go up the ladder without interpersonal skills. Understanding your ability to accept, acknowledge and work on your emotional stamina helps you achieve that prerequisite equilibrium. This state of equilibrium helps you to stay afloat, even during the most challenging of times. This, moves you towards success and achieve goals.

Any person’s EQ works alongside few verticals namely:

  • Awareness
  • Acceptance
  • Regulation
  • Determination
  • Empathy
  • Interpersonal skills

Awareness

Exposure to information about anything makes an experience worthwhile. Be it a product or service or a place, more trust is established when you know more about an entity or case. Likewise, in order to function effectively, we need to be aware of our emotional stature. It is important to give a thought to your behavior. For example, if you have reacted to a situation with anger, it is always better to tell your inner self that you did experience anger. Swaying away from acknowledging your emotions leads to conflicting personalities resulting in more problems.

Acceptance

Once you acknowledge the problem, it is essential to reflect on the ability to react your emotions without being a conscience judge. By accepting the faults, you are making an effort to study and assess your behavior. This helps in giving yourself time before making an impulsive decision.

Regulation

Only when you accept your behavior and reflect on it, you become capable of regulating it instead of being tamed by your emotions. When you possess power over your emotions, you also become emotionally stronger which is of utmost importance to being successful at workplace.

Determination

High emotional quotient signifies self confidence. It showcases your ability to handle effects of external pressure without compromising your behavior. This trait makes you a highly appreciated professional. And, no matter what the repercussions are, you will stay motivated and determined.

Empathy

The moment you begin to understand yourself better, your emotional spectrum broadens. When this happens, there is more space to empathize with your peers and understand their emotional needs. This brings in harmonious existence at the workplace, in the long run leading to success via a positive circle.

Interpersonal skills

With the exceptional ability to have a command over your emotions, your personality stabilizes leading to lasting relationships. Building relationships and a strong network base happens only when you possess desirable personality traits.

The above factors prove that emotional stability encompasses your scholastic ability in determining success. Thus your emotional quotient is a huge thrust to go up your career ladder, eventually resulting in success.

-Roshni Shaikh

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